We all want to be, do, and have more. But in these uncertain times where fear-based content is broadcast daily, it’s easy to believe that manifesting a more enriching life is almost impossible. What if that is a lie? What if co-creating the life you dream of is easier than you think? If actualizing was simple and fun, would you be willing to break a few bad habits? If you want to find out more, continue reading, “Life Is a Sorting Game You Can Win.”
Why Does Actualizing Seem Difficult?
Before we move on to playing with reality, let me tell you why you haven’t always been as successful at manifesting the life you wish. The cultural pattern you’ve been taught doesn’t work. Do you recognize these life instructions?
- Be a good person and follow all the rules.
- Attend school when we tell you to and get good grades,
- Set goals.
- Get an “higher education.”
- When you graduate, get a good job.
- Work hard and sacrifice for your job.
- You can be happy when you are on vacation.
- When you retire, you can live the life you’ve always dreamed of.
So one day you wake up, and you are 65 years of age. You have lived your life according to “the rules,” and now you are free to “live your dreams.” Unfortunately, for most, your time is spent trying to maintain whatever health and long life you have left. Or you may not have the funds to pay for the life you wish.
The Truth about Getting What You Want
What’s really true is that actualizing your visions for your life is as simple as making choices. In fact, God/The Universe/Source (or however you address your Higher Power) has designed you to be the best choice maker ever created. When you have made a decision and fixed that choice in your mind — you know what I mean, when you play with the scene in your imagination every chance you get until you feel well-being — Source has provided a delivery service for that choice to manifest through the Angelic Kingdom and Nature. So choosing is your job, and manifesting belongs to the Angels and Nature. That’s quite a bit different than setting your goals and working really hard to make them happen, isn’t it?
Improve Your Sorting Game
The “Old World” is falling away, and so are its polarity rules (Choose between two opposites — good vs. evil, light vs. dark, male vs. female). A new configuration for polarity is available where you choose between good, better, and best. There is nothing preventing you from moving to the new format. So, why not start now, since reality has never been more plastic?
How would that work in real life terms? Let’s say you are having an experience you enjoy – walking your dog or going to the gym. Just let the Universe know that you love the experience by expressing your gratitude and ask for more. On the other hand if you still have a few experiences you don’t like, don’t get into the drama of the circumstances (“Why me?” “I don’t deserve this.” “This isn’t fair.”). Look for an experience that feels better (not even on the topic of the upset), and tell God, “I’d rather have this.” If you can’t imagine a better experience, you can always plug into a feeling that feels better by asking, “How can this feel better now?”
Think of yourself as someone who is at a buffet. If you love turkey and dressing, you might serve yourself a good size portion as you move through the buffet. If you don’t like cranberry sauce, you just by-pass it. You don’t stand there and have a tantrum or meltdown because cranberry sauce is on the buffet. You just move on to the next item you like, perhaps sweet potato pie.
The Test
Once you get more conscious about telling Source what you want to be, do, or have, you will start to experience more of what you desire. Your manifestation team will continue to move toward you the people, places, resources, and experiences that will help you actualize your dreams. In fact, once you trigger a manifestation process by choosing — either unconsciously or consciously — that process continues until you are a vibrational/frequency match for grounding that experience in your life. The only time a manifestation stops is if you have actualized your choice or you change your mind.
So start keeping track of your results. The more steadfast you are about consciously choosing what you want — and again you are not responsible in any way for delivering the results — the more experiences will be available to you because you won’t be wasting time and energy on the drama of having a circumstance you don’t enjoy much. You’ll get to the point where it feels natural for you to say, “Well, that wasn’t much fun. Let’s try this instead. This looks more enriching.”
Be willing to sort for at least 90 days before you come to any conclusion about the process. That’s the amount of time it takes to change your programming at the atomic level.
Happy Thanksgiving to You All
From my family to yours, I wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving. I feel very grateful to connect with you and share my journey!