Reality Check
When What I Read Appears Ugly Who Needs the Reality Check? Since social media is a way to reach out to others, I spend some time every day on Facebook, Twitter, and so on. I’ve noticed a trend that is quite upsetting on its face – people saying ugly things about various friend’s grief processes; […]
You Only Have So Much Time
What Are You Doing with Your Time? I’ve been waiting to write this post until the energy perculated, assimilated, and I had something useful to say. During the last few weeks, when I mostly have been offline, I have reflected quite a bit. I thought I’d share my progress with you. The Factual Situation Two […]
Habitual Conditioning vs. Authenticity
Habitual Conditioning Robs us of Authenticity What is Habitual Conditioning? We listen to the thought leaders we are trained to value from birth: our parents, older family members, older siblings, teachers, ministers, older community members, political leaders, and eventually supervisors and bosses. The punishment for not living by their rules is extremely painful, everything from […]
Don’t Take Life So Personally
Retrain Your Habitual Responses – Don’t Take Life So Personally I have four rescue cats: Jackie, Angel, Ghost, and Chris. Each one of them has enriched my life beyond belief, as I often learn my best lessons by watching them negotiate life. This is the story of Chris and what he’s taught me. Chris’s life […]